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OPINION: 5 Reasons Why Most Men Prefer Dating the Older Independent Woman
In this article I intend to address a question that has been
lingering for a while now in the minds of most college girls. It seems like
most men are finding it more convenient to be with an older woman than the
young lasses in college.
Why is this?
In my very own experience I have come to respect older
women. “Older women” meaning women between the ages of 28 to mid 30’s. MOST of
them carry themselves with an air of confidence; one which is quite
intoxicating and motivates you to try and better your best.
1. The older independent woman knows what she wants in life and
will fight hard in order to get it. She has the demeanor of a person who has
everything under control and she rarely loses her composure. If she does, she
will never do it in front of you unless she trusts you.
2. This woman knows that her body is a temple and will take
care of it. She makes a point of visiting her local gym for her scheduled work
out. Her body is in great shape and this accentuates her feminine sexuality.
She will always eat right, avoiding unhealthy food when she can.
3. Her wardrobe is every girls dream. It consists of fitting
designer tops, shorts, trouser and shoes. An assortment of jewelry that only
seeks to make her stand out. She does not do slutty. She is always in classy
pairing not over dressing nor under dressing; just the perfect blend to suit
the particular events of the day. She does not over-do her make up like most of
the college girls. No!! She knows that she is naturally beautiful and make-up
will only be an unnecessary inconvenience.
4. She spends her own money and will never demand you take her
out on a date unless you offer to. She is open to suggestions and she is
equally comfortable on the dance floor in her favorite club as well as on the
rooftop of an exclusive hotel dining on a chef prepared meal with you. She
would also accommodate a well thought out surprise romantic candle-lit dinner
at home with just the two of you.
5. Unlike the college beauties, this lady is not clingy. She
has a life to build and if she wants you to be a part of it she will tell you. However,
if it’s just a fling she knows that she does not own you and you are free to
see other people. This woman does not resort to drastic measures when she feels intimidated by other women in your life. If she is interested in getting into a
relationship with you, she will let you know. If not she will let you know too.
She knows what she wants.
I would like to one day wake up and find that our college
girls have adopted some of this qualities if not all. However, I am sensible
enough to see the futility in that happening. It would be akin to drawing water
from a rock; it would require divine intervention. I have come to the
conclusion that it’s probably just something that women outgrow or probably
learn when they realize that life is not as perfect as they are led to believe
in the Telenovelas.
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