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5 (FIVE) tips to be the perfect Girlfriend
After my last post on, Art of Seduction: From the Eyes of a
University Student, some of my female readers felt the need to tell me off. Well, if speaking the truth hurt that much, then you should be prepared for some more truth right here.
You can read it here Art of Seduction: From the Eyes of A University Student
It goes without saying how life in campus can be tough considering just how much the word faithful means close to nothing. In fact it changes its meaning totally. The only time your partner (either boy or girl) is faithful is only when they are feeling lonely. Trust me!! From my experience, a number of girls, most of them will always claim they are in a relationship at first. I think its some sort of ritual to weed out the "good" guys. However the "Bad Boys" will not give a hoot whether her hubby is his room mate or lives next door. Later on they will dive right into bed with you and ride you like its the last day on earth.
Also, some will go as far as to claim that they are virgins!! Yeah right!!
There she is hitting all the Kamasutra moves like she has been doing it all her life and spreading those legs like....aaaaahhh...but I digress.
Here are my the top 5 picks for how to be the perfect girlfriend.
1. Always be honest.
There is nothing more important in a relationship than honesty. Unfortunately most men have very low self esteem or they imagine that they are more than perfect. So anytime when you speak to him do not go for the jugular; do not deflate his ego.
Be honest but at the same time show him a bit of respect. Put him on a pedestal so he can feel like a lion defending his lioness. Men are 90% ego and
have as many insecurities as women do. They just know how to hide their feelings better. Ladies, if you love your man do not use his insecurities against him especially when an argument ensues
between the two of you. Savvy!!!!!
2. Do not Nag.
Let us be honest here. Girls love to Nag. Anything however small can turn into something big right out of nowhere. Its amazing. I wish they had the same effect on my bank account. Men appreciate
structure. Say what you want and if it is important, you will have it. Do not ask for a car for your birthday yet you can barely afford to buy your own airtime.
3. Avoid too much make up.
This just had to be in here. I really am against all this women walking around the campus all dolled up thinking they are beautiful. Do not be delusional. Most of the time the complexion of their face does not match that of their feet. It is weird at times because it seems like they fell into a bale of flour but forgot to wipe it off their faces. Also, throw those nasty looking weaves into the trash and let your real hair down.
4. Be a woman.
In this day and age where women are demanding gender equality then at the same time demand affirmative action, women have to realize that some things cannot just change. Women who cook are just attractive. Why? Its just natural. I am not saying men should not cook or that women belong in the kitchen. What I am saying is that it should not come to that point where you take turns on alternative days to cook. Remember, a happy man leads to a happy wife which leads to a happy home.
5. Be Miss Independent
I have done a bit of research over the past few days and I have come to the final conclusion that men are not indeed afraid of the independent lady with the classy clothes, fancy shoes and eloquent
demeanor.
No!! In fact men are more attracted to this rare species of women because they are strong willed and more likely to encourage or motivate the men to work harder. Nobody wants a lazy woman who sits around the house all day doing nothing but watch soaps and Nigerian movies.
In fact, in my research I have identified the main reason why society thinks men are afraid of the Independent woman is because most of this women have one major character flaw. They assume that all men are lazy slobs trying to milk money out of them. They would rather pay a man to conceive a child with them and later raise the child by themselves because they " do not need a man in their lives".
There you go. If you agree with me you know what to do in the comments below, and if I have stepped on any toes, believe me I am not apologetic for telling my truth.
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